Steve
Right. Yeah, I mean, I think that most salespeople ought to slow their roll. I think they're too quick to go to the connection, they're too quick to go into the DMs, they're too quick to go to the ask. I think you've got to give, you've got to make more deposits into that bank account before you try to make a withdrawal. So all the stuff we've talked about helps. And in some cases, if you do a really good job, they may reach out to connect with you. Wonderful. The fish jumped in the boat. Doesn't happen a lot, but it does. But another thing you can do, instead of going right to the connection request and the dreaded connect and pitch, the dreaded pitch slap, follow them. Just follow. You don't have to send the connection request, the two-way thing that they either accept or reject. And frankly, increasingly when you have sales in your title or business development or anything like that, it's an automatic delete for a lot of people because they've been conditioned to expect the pitch slap incoming.
So don't go for the connection request yet. Follow them. And that's a one-way thing. They neither say yes or no, and they might notice you and great, or they might not even notice, but now you're seeing their posts. And now ... If they post, and I'll come back to those who don't post, because obviously not all your prospects post, but some do. Wonderful opportunity to get in there and actually be interested in them and be helpful to them and amplify what they're saying and what they're doing. Now, of course, say in this hypothetical enterprise account, there might be a dozen people that you would love to strike up a relationship with and maybe say three of them are active on LinkedIn. Well, you know what? They're all connected to each other and some of those people lurk. So you follow and actively add value to the posts of those three. And probably five or six more of them are seeing that and they're starting to form a little bit of a positive impression of you and of your firm.
And you still haven't gone into the ask yet, you're still giving and you're cultivating that. And then as you go, again, a couple of people may reach out to you to connect if you're truly doing this well. And if you're not, then when you go to connect with them, you can do it in a way like, "I've really been enjoying my conversations with your colleague, Susan, and I've learned a lot from her and I think she's getting value from my relationship. Would you be interested in connecting as well?" There's a good likelihood now that they're going to accept that connection. Now, don't pitch slap them. Don't go right to the second, "Oh, you accepted my connection. Great. Can we get on a call on Tuesday?"
No, no, slow it down. Now they've accepted your connection request, now they're going to start seeing, remember, because you are now posting good content, they're going to see some of that and they're going to read some of that, and hopefully they're going to engage with some of that. And if they check out your profile, they're not just seeing your resume, they're seeing how you help people like them. So all of these pieces all come together, and yet if you try to force it ... Here's a metaphor that I've used with some of our own salespeople. I've said, "Let's not force this or we can spoil it." Think about if you've ever gone camping and made a campfire, so you've got the paper or the whatever, and then you've got your little kindling wood, your little sticks. You know how you got to build a roaring fire? You got to start small, and then you add fuel to the fire and you build it up.
If you've got just a few little flames there and you take a great big log and you drop it on it, there goes your fire. It's gone. And that's what a lot of salespeople do. The moment they get a little flicker of engagement, they drop the big log on it with the barging into the world, wanting the meeting, and people just tend to block them. So slow your roll, add fuel to the fire over time and actually build authentic engagement rather than just taking that slight flicker of engagement as a green light to barge into their world.